I feel like I tackled a major mommy "first" this weekend - I spent 2.5 days without my precious little Elsa.
As the weekend approached, I was excited yet nervous and hesitant. Excited because I was traveling to visit a dear friend and her beautiful little 5 week old! Nervous because I had never been away from Elsa for more than 12 hours before. Add to that the fact that I was going to be around an itty bitty baby potentially clad in Elsa's newborn clothes (we have passed our clothing on to my friend), and I had a feeling that some tears may be shed by the end of the weekend. And hesitant because I didn't want to get bitten with baby fever over the weekend. I love Elsa more than words could ever convey but having a second child right now isn't part of Carl's and my "plan".
Before I left for the trip, I asked Carl if he had any advice to help ease my separation anxiety (as you may recall, Elsa and I had a couple of Mommy and Baby adventures this summer). His response, "No.... I really just enjoyed the silence." This made me realize that perhaps Mommies and Daddies are wired a tad bit differently.
Now that it's all said and done, I have to admit that while I missed my baby, being away from her really wasn't that bad. And, I'm shocked to say that while the newborn was adorable and I enjoyed snuggling with her, it didn't make me feel the urge to reproduce anytime soon. Elsa, you'll be happy to know that you'll get Mommy and Daddy all to yourself for a while longer!
And I'm happy to report that Elsa and Carl thoroughly enjoyed their Daddy and Baby weekend. I hear that it was full of laughs and noisy playtime activities - like banging the heck out of Mommy's coffee table.